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How reckless could a race of people be if they could heal rapidly? If someone got hit by a car in real life and needed a few months to start walking again, and over a year to do anything like martial arts again, for these people, they'd be walking in a few days and doing martial arts in two weeks. If they would die on impact, then yes, they would die. If they would die in an ambulance, it depends but they would still have a chance. In real life, cuts that take a few days to heal will be healed in several minutes. They definitely do feel pain of course, but as a whole, the general populace has pain tolerance just below those of elite athletes in the real world. I'm imagining these people might be the daredevil type.. could it be very common to get cuts and bruises, not strange to see some of the worst kids or teens getting cut nearly every single day, multiple times a day. I mostly want to focus on the injured = not a big deal bit. Or getting injured as part of normal daily life. But what else might this affect? More surgeries happening because people decide the recovery time isn't an issue (doesn't eliminate other factors of course) How about piercings? If someone goes half a day without piercings, their hole would close. Maybe... medicine that stops the healing process? But how expensive could those medicines be vs getting pierced again?
Tex: So there’s this plant, called plantain. One of the common varieties is known as Plantago major. One of its primary uses in herbal medicine is to heal wounds - and it’s very good at it!
A little bit too good, unfortunately, and it often comes with a warning to clean out wounds first before applying it, because it has the tendency to work so quickly at encouraging skin to knit back up that infections can easily be sealed underneath. This is a problem, because in order to heal the infection, the skin must be cut back open, lest someone risk the infection spreading to the blood and causing sepsis (if not, in bad cases, necrosis).
“Super healing” has many of the same flaws. In practice, the process of healing is rather complex, and while there is some overlap in steps (excess blood cleared away, immune system response to pathogens, phagocytosis, signals sent to regenerate broken tissue or other affected organs), doing too much of only one process can have detrimental effects on the patient in question. It’s the reason why in first aid you clean a wound first, then apply medicines, then apply bandages.
Things like bones, and the squishier bits called organs, take time to heal, because they’re not only reallocating resources to grow new cells (i.e. neurogenesis, osteogenesis, etc), they’re also going through the entire pathway of fighting infections (i.e. B cells, T cells, etc) and checking for cancerous markers of cells that duplicated incorrectly (uncommon, but non-zero possibility). It’s a lot, lot more than “add calcium to bone” or “make skin whole”.
Regeneration of tissue is also rather itchy, and uncomfortable. That, barring anything else, is going to make a lot of people think twice about how many injuries they’re willing to risk. Compounding injuries compounds the discomfort, and most people wish to avoid being uncomfortable if there’s any other option for a situation.
On top of that, rapid regeneration would require a large amount of resources for both calories and micronutrients. This translates to being hungry all the time. Humans can generally heal quickly with a good diet and enough sleep (the brain regulates the flushing of metabolic waste during sleep, Patel et al.), which is why it’s seen as a good sign for hospital patients to have an appetite and also to have a regular sleep schedule.
You can handwave as much of this as you like in your worldbuilding, but to borrow SAW’s general rule, “you break it, you bought it” in terms of internal consistency.
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Technically they're not headaches though. This is the problem and where the misconceptions are laregly coming from. Headaches are only a symptom of Migraines and even then, they are not the same kind of headaches that a non-migraine sufferer deals with; besides that, they are not the only symptom of migraines experience either.
For one thing, a non-migraine sufferer who gets the occasional headache gets the relief of knowing they can consume a dosage of Tylenol/Ibuprofen/Aspirin and feel better in an hour or so and their symptoms seize and desist. Migraine sufferers often can't depend on these medications to help with pain and other symptoms and even once taking their proper medications those symptoms do not readily clear out as they can take a whole day or even days to do so.
Migraines are a neurological disorder that affects the nervous system. Migraines end up effecting a lot more than just the brain with discomfort/pain. They can impact eyesight, hearing, cognitive abilities, mobility, memory/focus, moods and digestive system functions. When I get migraines there's also after-math symptoms for when I'm recovering which varies. For instance, on a non-attack day I can eat a meal at a reg. portion and pace but on a migraine attack day I can take hours to finish a smaller meal as my motor skills slow down to that of snail. And don't get me started on yawning attacks.
Actually, I will as I'm already committed to ranting hoping it helps someone else out. My ability to absorb oxygen and regulate body temperature can get disrupted all day and there can be all sorts of symptoms that accompany this fact. Everything from hot flashes to yawning attacks. I call it yawning attacks because I yawn non-stop till my jaw hurts. And I'm not just talking for 3 minutes here. It's gone as long as 30 minutes before.
Aside from all of that, my migraines specifically come with auras (you can look it up what those are) and they tie hand-in-unloving-hand with my other mental health conditions like Complex PTSD for me. Without going into all of that excessively I have to seek additional treatment for Psychogenic Non-epileptic seizures. These are seizures that do not relate to Epilepsy although I was almost mistakenly believing I had this diagnosis due to confusion from a doctor. Before someone yells "malpractice" please keep it in mind they still had me referred to an Epilepsy Specialist to further evaluate me.
Also, many medical professionals are still poorly trained (or not at all) with regards to psychogenic seizures as I've run into medics before who had no idea what was even wrong with me as my seizures didn't present the absence symptoms they were taught to look for in epileptic patients. They were punching me in the chest not entirely sure if it would help and were taking a huge health risk. Basically, I get these seizures for two reasons 1) they're my mind's defense mechanism against severe anxiety and stress and 2) it's also my minds defense mechanism response to pain.
Complex PTSD is typically the root cause for this condition; however, my migraine attacks can trigger one of these seizures to happen as well. I have to be simultaneously on medication that treats mental health and migraines alike which is why simple pain killers would never suffice.
When a migraine sufferer say's "I have a migraine" what we really mean and should be saying is "I am having a migraine attack." Doing otherwise continues to enforce and enable ignorance around the condition which comes back negatively onto people needing treatment and accommodations for this condition.
And while I'm on that, if you suspect you are experiencing this condition then you need to be asking your primary care physician for a referral to a Neurologist who specializes with them (if you have not done so already and I'm saying 'you' as a neutral to anyone that is reading that could be impacted by this info.
You stand a high risk of having misinformation regurgitated by a medical professional who isn't fully trained to treat migraines. At best, they will prescribe something low-dosage and deemed safe universally as that's all they're permitted to do without ability to observe your neurological activity through xrays/cat scans/mris.
As a result, you could end up with a number of problems whether that's getting too weak a dosage or the entirely wrong medication. Without going into semantics about all the varieties of migraines and cutting it down to two of the simplest categories--a person that has migraines w/ auras will be less likely to benefit from a medication that helps a person that does not experience auras.
So, yea I'm used to people still calling them headaches and fighting frustration that goes along with their misconceptions.
(This question is for people diagnosed with migraines but they MUST have a diagnosis from a doctor.)
Does it bother you when people refer to your migraines as “headaches” even after you have stated it is a migraine?
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I can’t really get into the parentification of Dick or “dadwing”, mostly because a big portion of people assign him the “healthy, perfect parent” trait as a dunk on Bruce. But they also want the “elder sister” angst at the same time, which just doesn’t mix.
Saying that Dick is the less dysfunctional option for his siblings is laughable because HE’S inherently a flawed human being with a flawed set of coping mechanisms.
I don’t see him knocking on the therapist’s office instead of putting on the mask. Do you?
If you want the big sister, get ready for the cruelty that comes with her. And we’ve personally seen just how good Dick is at hurting feelings.
#like it feels so…forced#Sibling dynamics don’t work like parent\child dynamics besties. When you’re someone’s parent you subsequently forfeit your personhood.#you have to be the patient one the responsible one the dependable one the problem and the solution.#and that’s very clearly always been Bruce’s role. and hey if you want dick to be a dad better get ready to hold him culpable for everything#always. but you can’t. cause dick isn’t a father#like ik it’s not that deep but it’s frustrating#text#dc#dick grayson#bruce wayne#also?? dick has his own kid??
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WIND BREAKER | when they have a shopaholic girlfriend
Synopsis ✰ head cannons of the boys when they’re dating a girl who loves to shop
Characters ✰ Haruka Sakura, Hajime Umemiya, Hayato Suo, Akihiko Nirei, Jo Togame, Choji Tomiyama
Contains ✰ suggestive, blushing boys, slight teasing, semi-public (implied), cute content of the boys being boyfriends, tiny amount of spice?
Haruka Sakura ᡣ𐭩
♡ you drag this man to the mall at least twice a week
♡ he personally hates shopping and finds it to be boring but never complains since it’s an excuse to spend time with you
♡ secret confession: he thinks your wasting money but is way too afraid to face your wrath to say it out loud
♡ whenever he asks why you spend so much money on clothes and make up he gets hit with a “there’s a price for beauty”
♡ after he seeing how cute you look in your new outfits he most definitely learns that there is a price for beauty
♡ he will become a blushing mess when you pick out the most revealing outfits
♡ “what do you think?” you asked picking up a skimpy dress and pressing it against your body. his only response is a huge blush that spreads from his nose, cheeks to the tip of his ears
♡ he loses it once you drag him into victoria secret
♡ “don’t you think this would look nice on me?” you teased while picking up crotchless underwear
♡ you absolutely will be the death of this man
♡ he feels like the worlds biggest boy toy carrying all your pink shopping bags and following you into every clothing store
♡ you reward him for being so nice and patient with your shopping by taking him to one of his favorite stores and buying him whatever he wants
♡ wetzel’s pretzels pit stop is a must
♡ you reward him even more by trying on every scandalous outfit you purchased at home in private
Hajime Umemiya ᡣ𐭩
♡ acknowledges that your shopping addiction is a problem and tries to help without making you feel bad
♡ he mostly tries to help you through budgeting, thanks to him you’ve cut down shopping to twice a month
♡ Umemiya personally loves your style, especially with how confident you are in your clothes
♡ he always suggests that you should try on your clothes before committing to the purchase
♡ don’t be fooled, it’s not because he wants you to make sure they fit you, he just loves seeing how cute you look in the new outfits
♡ on some occasions he goes around the store himself picking out the cutest tops and skirts he can find for you
♡ once he picks out the cutest pieces he can find you do him the favor of trying them on while he gets to admire your beauty
♡ you manage to get the very lightest blushes from him when the skirts he picks out happen to be shorter than he originally pictured
♡ once your done doing a number on all the stores he carries all your bags
♡ it always surprises you how no matter how many bags you have ume carries them with a startling amount of ease
♡ ofc you offer to carry some but he insists you shouldn’t lift a pretty finger
♡ every cashier compliments how adorable you two look together
♡ “how cute! you two look like a match made in heaven.” a comment you two often receive a lot
♡ depending on your guys mood you might end the day with a movie night
♡ no, Ume can’t help but keep his hands all over you in the dark theater once he finally has you to himself
Hayato Suo ᡣ𐭩
♡ will always offer to pay for your items
♡ fortunately enough for his wallet, you almost always decline since you prefer to use your own money
♡ has no problem carrying all your bags, does it with a smile on his face
♡ almost every girl who sees you at the mall is raging with pure jealousy
♡ so many of the girls wished they had a boyfriend as sweet as yours
♡ you couldn’t help but glare at every girl in the mall who was checking him out
♡ he quickly noticed your glares which had him gushing on the inside
♡ he was so flattered to know you could be so possessive over him
♡ once you noticed every cashier you got were lingering their eyes on him longer than they should, batting their eyelashes at him, smiling harder at him than you, one of them even winked at him when they thought you weren’t looking, you lost it.
♡ “i want to go home. im done shopping.” you pouted. Suo knew exactly why you didn’t want to shop anymore but still asked “why not love?” “everyone keeps falling in love with you!” you whined before putting your head on his chest. his heart fluttered at the action before he opened his mouth, “don’t pay any mind to them. i’m all yours” reassuring you with a soft kiss
♡ Suo made sure to reassure you with kisses more after the conversation
♡ you made the mistake of leaving him alone while getting a jamba juice drink, you came back to find a girl asking him out
♡ before you knew it your feet were moving up to them, completely ignoring the girl. you grabbed your boyfriends head by the back of his neck and yanked him down to a deep kiss. you pulled away while saying “hey babe”, the girl instantly walked away embarrassed
♡ Suo blushed after the incident while you continued walking to the next store as if nothing happened
Akihiko Nirei ᡣ𐭩
♡ the absolute sweetest boyfriend about your habits
♡ he’s so incredibly supportive while also making sure you aren’t going to overboard
♡ he helps ensure that you’re only buying what you need and not things you’ll get over in a week
♡ he has no bad opinions, tells you everything looks nice since in his head everything does look nice on you
♡ he gets a little nervous whenever you drag him to the fitting room so you can get his opinions on the clothes
♡ he sits in the lounge room anticipating the moment you walk out of the changing room
♡ you treat this as if it were a fashion show making him tell you what he likes about each article of clothing
♡ whenever you get near any lingerie he gets incredibly shy trying not to look
♡ he won’t even look at the mannequins if they’re wearing risqué clothing
♡ such a sweet innocent boy who you can’t help but tease
♡ one of your favorite things to do were joke about buying lingerie for him, holding up a black lacey set you ask “can you imagine me wearing this for you? would you like it?” with a sweet smile
♡ he could never give you a proper response due to fighting back any suggestive thoughts, just blushes
♡ you let out a giggle and made your way to the cash register making him freeze in shock before quickly making his way to you
♡ you purchased it, Nirei was furiously blushing when the cashier smiled at you and then looked up at him
♡ Nirei’s thoughts were going absolutely wild the entire way home just wondering how soon you’d be willing to wear that for him
Jo Togame ᡣ𐭩
♡ he carries all your bag with a significant amount of ease, doesn’t even let you touch a bag before he already has it in place around his arm with the others
♡ Togame doesn’t get shy, jokes about suggestive clothing won’t work on him if anything he’d ask you to wear it for him
♡ this man is holding your hand 24/7, if he has too many bags to hold your hand, you settle with wrapping your arm around his bicep
♡ he loves having such a pretty girl on his arm
♡ he will glare at every man who has lingering eyes on you fighting the urge to go over there and punch both their eyes out of their sockets
♡ he’s the one who drags you into victoria secret, his favorite thing to do is pick out underwear for you to wear later
♡ “these would look so nice on you… while i push them aside to touch your cute little cunt” he whispers in your ear making your face beat red
♡ he’s gotten so used to all your habits and all the stores you go to
♡ he’s mesmerized where all your favorite stores are at so if you ever forget he can easily lead the two of you there
♡ you’re so thankful for Togame’s height whenever there’s an item that’s the last one and is too high up to get he comes to your rescue
♡ he loves to ‘rescue’ you since you always reward him with a kiss and a small “my hero” he loves to hear your praise
♡ you’re a gorgeous girl, ofc there’s always a guy who wants to ask you out
♡ before any guy can even make their way to you they meet Togame’s eyes that holds a dark threatening aura to them
♡ consider every man in existence to be scared off
♡ he personally doesn’t care about your shopping addiction as long as your happy and safe
♡ he ensures that your safety by always being there by your side
Choji Tomiyama ᡣ𐭩
♡ he loves your shopping addiction, he thinks it’s a cute habit of yours and figures if you can afford it why not?
♡ he finds it absolutely adorable to watch you gush over every item at the store
♡ you both always go to miniso first, it’s a must
♡ especially since it’s the main store that provides items you both like
♡ you guys are fascinated by the alarming amount of blind boxes miniso provides
♡ you do some blind boxes unboxing and he always gives you the one he gets if it’s the one you originally wanted
♡ when it comes to clothing shops he loves watching you try on clothes
♡ he purposefully picks out the shortest skirts for you to try on
♡ “try this on for me? yeah?” he was never afraid to ask you to try on something scandalous for him even if it made your face crimson red
♡ Choji is anything but shy he has no problem being bold with you, it’s a blessing and a curse
♡ “i- you can’t come in with me!” you blush as Choji steps inside the changing room. his only response is “no one’s watching us, it’s fine”
♡ Choji is very impatient. he won’t wait until your home, if he wants you he’ll have you
♡ even if that means having to clamp his hand over your mouth to muffle the sweet sounds you make
♡ secret confession: Choji loves to pick out miniskirts for you, it makes you so easily accessible
a/n <3 : i’ve been in such a head cannon mood lately? im having so much fun writing them, im obsessed! expect more to come soon <3
#divider by anitalenia#sakura haruka#sakura haruka x reader#hajime umemiya#hajime umemiya x reader#hayato suo#suo hayato x reader#nirei akihiko#nirei akihiko x reader#jo togame#jo togame x reader#choji tomiyama#choji tomiyama x reader
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@quezify eggtober 2024
Nurse Kylie poked her head into the emergency department’s provider room. “Dr. T?”
“Yeah?”
“David wants you to come to room 12.”
“It’s a sprained ankle, he can handle that.”
“He already saw the patient, but he said you’ll need to see him too.”
Dr. T stood up from the computer and walked to room 12. David, the physician assistant, met her in the hallway across from the room.
“Patient is Allen Spencer, age 29. He signed in for a sprained ankle. His xrays are fine, but when he opened up his bag… Well, see for yourself.”
The patient, a brown haired man wearing a sweatshirt and track pants, was sitting on the stretcher watching TV. Next to him was an approximately one foot tall egg with arms and legs. It was faceless. Neither the patient or the egg seemed to be in any acute distress.
“That’s an egg who has arms and legs,” Dr. T said.
“It is.”
On the TV screen, a football game was playing. A wide receiver caught a pass and started doing an end zone dance. The patient let out a little squeal and high fived the egg. The egg then stood up and started imitating the end zone dance.
“It has no eyes but it can see.”
David passed her a notepad. “It asked for a pen and then wrote this.”
On the notepad was a neatly written message in blue ink. Dr. T read it out loud in an annoyed voice. “Turn on the game.” She shook her head, then said, “This looks like an Institute problem. Did you check the guy for a chip?”
David answered, “I did. His scan flags for Spiceland Institute.”
“Did you call them?”
“Figured I should let you see him first.”
“Does he have any complaints other than his ankle?”
“He’s fine other than that.”
“OK. I’ll check his ankle just to say I did. Call the institute so they can come and get him and his egg. Get a sitter for the room until their team shows up.”
Dr. T. entered the room. “Hi Mr. Spencer, I’m Dr. T. They told me you hurt your ankle.”
“I twisted it in the woods.”
“I’ll take a look at it. Who’s your friend here?”
“He’s Buddy. He likes football.”
“Let’s have Buddy sit in the chair while I look at your ankle.”
The egg athletically jumped down off of the bed, walked over to the chair, turned the chair to face the TV screen, and then climbed into it to sit. Dr. T raised her eyebrows as this series of events occurred, let out a breath, and then started looking at Mr. Spencer’s ankle.
“I barely see any swelling here. Can you bend your foot up and down for me? Good. Wiggle your toes. Good.” She stood up. “I’m going to go talk to PA David. You can just rest for now and watch the game. OK?”
“OK.”
When she exited the room, a panda-man wearing scrubs was stationed in a chair next to the door, on sitter duty. His arms were crossed over his broad chest. He nodded his head and asked, “How you doing, Dr. T?”
“Depends on how much paperwork I have to do about this,” she said.
She walked over to Helen, the charge nurse. “You’ve got Tai Shan doing sitter duty?”
Helen shrugged. “He’s trying to buy a house. He needs the extra hours.”
A couple of hours later, staff from Spiceland Institute arrived. Dr. T shook hands with the two men, who were wearing black baseball hats and black jumpsuits.
“I’m Dr. T.”
“Specialist Allen Kemper.”
“Specialist Dale Chavez. I gave your charge nurse the transfer paperwork. Can I get your name for our records?”
“First name’s Wendy, with a Y. I’ll just spell my last name. T-A-P-A-Z-O-C-L-O-L-I-N-E-A-B-E-U hyphen D-I-A-Z.”
“Got it. We’ll take him off of your hands.”
“And the egg?”
Specialist Chavez rolled his eyes. “We’ll take the egg too. The two of them are kind of a package deal. We've been looking for them for the past day and a half.”
Specialist Kemper cleared his throat.
Specialist Chavez shifted his eyes in response, then asked, "Which room are they in?"
"Room 12," Dr. T answered.
Specialist Kemper was helping Mr. Spencer into his coat when Dr. T went back into the room with the discharge paperwork.
Mr. Spencer was talking. “I watched the football game. And I had two cookies!”
“Two cookies are better than one cookie,” Specialist Kemper said.
Mr. Spencer asked, "Did you notice that it gets dark earlier now?"
"I did," Specialist Kemper answered.
On the floor, Buddy the Egg was enclosed in a carrier. By body position, he seemed forlorn.
As the Spiceland Institute team walked out with Mr. Spencer and Buddy, Tai Shan glared at the specialists from his chair.
Helen came up to Dr. T. “We’ve got a cardiac arrest coming in five.”
“What bed are you going to?”
“Thirty-four.”
“OK.”
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🔢 Your 2024 Prediction (Numerology) Part 1
How to Know Your Personal Year Number :
1st Step : Add your date of birth [ Day & Month ]
Examples 2nd Jan = 2+1 = (3) 29 Dec = 29+12 = 41 = (5) 10 June = 1+0+6 = (7)
2nd Step : Since its Year 2024 thus 2+0+2+4 = 8 + Above number with 8
Examples (3)+8 = 11 = 2 (Personal Year Number) (5)+8 = 13 = 4 (Personal Year Number) (7)+8 = 15 = 6 (Personal Year Number)
Personal Year 1
This year marks a fresh start in your destiny, filled with endless possibilities. With all doors opening up and obstacles fading away, it's the perfect time to embrace new beginnings. Don't hesitate to take the initiative and make bold decisions. Let your creativity shine as you venture into uncharted territory.
However, keep in mind that this is the year of Saturn, which means delays and responsibilities may come your way. Saturn, being an adversary to the sun, which rules the number one year, suggests that you may encounter some initial obstacles.
But fear not, for competition, difficulties, and roadblocks are just part of the journey. Stay patient and calm as you navigate through them. Success will be yours, but remember that Saturn emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility, while the number one signifies leadership. In the end, you'll have to assert yourself and strive for what you desire. Just remember to approach it with kindness and avoid selfishness.
The combination of Saturn and the sun may make you slightly self-centered, but don't let that deter you. The convergence of the number one (sun) and number eight (Saturn) indicates that this is the perfect time to embark on something new. Whether it's starting a business, pursuing a job opportunity, forming new friendships, entering a relationship, or even moving to a new home, the universe is aligning in your favor. Embrace the possibilities and make this year truly remarkable.
This is a time for fresh starts and seizing opportunities, so take advantage of it while you can. Don't rush through obstacles, let them fade away naturally. Remember, honesty and integrity are key to success. Saturn governs your Karma, so shortcuts and dishonesty will only lead to failure. Stay true to yourself and work hard, as this new beginning is destined for greatness. Enjoy this period of new beginnings, as it won't come around again for another 9 years.
Personal Year 2
This year is all about connecting with others and fostering cooperation within your family and friendships. It's a time to build strong and lasting relationships that will bring value to your life. Remember, last year was a fresh start for you, and now it's about making it count. However, it's important to note that you can't do it alone this year.One thing to keep in mind is that the number two is influenced by the moon, which emphasizes the importance of harmony. Whether it's within your family or friendships, genuine warmth and understanding should be present.
Since this is the year of Saturn and the moon is its enemy, there is a tendency to feel disconnected from your emotions. It will be an emotional and sensitive year for you, as you will experience things deeply, just like anyone else in a personal year 2. You may find yourself becoming detached from your emotions and not fully expressing your true feelings. Depending on your personal circumstances, you might even experience a slight sense of depression and heightened anxiety.
As this year progresses, you will undoubtedly overcome any challenges that come your way. The key to doing so lies in your ability to connect, cooperate, and work with others. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Whether you are single, in business, or working independently, it is crucial to establish connections with people around you. By doing so, you will find that happiness will flourish, and a sense of well-being will prevail.
Family plays a significant role in your life this year, as many of the problems you face can be resolved through open communication and bringing your family closer together. Make this your main focus for the year - binding your family matters by fostering connections. By doing so, you will experience increased happiness, support, and reciprocation from others.
While starting new relationships is possible this year, it may progress slowly due to a natural inclination to be cautious and not easily trust others. The alignment of the moon and Saturn indicates a slight sense of distrust. If you decide to embark on a new business venture or change your job, keep in mind that you may need to adapt to the preferences and expectations of others.
It is important to fit into the new job or business situation completely, even if it may not align with your personal preferences initially. However, by blending in and making necessary adjustments, you will have the opportunity to shape your job or business situation according to your desires in the following year.
Personal Year 3
Jupiter's influence will bring expansion in all aspects of your life this year. Your social circle will grow, new people will come into your world, and you may even embark on exciting travels and romantic adventures. Personal year 3 in 2024 promises a positive and joyful connection with others. Saturn's universal year number eight, however, will also play a significant role. You may reunite with old friends or romantic partners, visit new and familiar places, and experience a karmic revisiting of the past to shape your future. Let go of negative emotions and grudges as you embrace this transformative year.
This year is going to be a turning point for you. The people you meet will play a significant role in your life, leading to more than just temporary friendships. You are expanding your social network and forming strong relationships. Get ready for a year full of dramatic moments and excitement around every corner. It's going to be an enjoyable year as you dive into new experiences like starting a new romance, job, or taking on more responsibilities. Just remember, it won't be drama-free.
As it's a Saturn year, be cautious not to become lazy. While there are many good things coming your way, you still need to put in the effort. If you slack off, you might find yourself in unwanted drama. Learn to go with the flow with your superiors, boss, and those around you. Don't disappoint anyone and avoid selfishness. Cooperation and considering others will bring happiness, enjoyment, and thrilling moments into your life.
This year is especially favorable for artistic individuals like actors, actresses, writers, musicians, and performers. There are plenty of opportunities for creative performances. Additionally, Jupiter's influence will bring good fortune to many. Students will have a successful year in terms of education. Managing a baby or getting along with your kids will be smooth sailing.
Personal Year 4
When you're in your personal year 4, the focus will be on security, stability, and making sure everything falls into place in your life. Despite your efforts to create a safe and solid foundation, unexpected opportunities may arise out of nowhere.
I've witnessed individuals in their personal year 4 experience sudden job offers, relocations, and new relationship prospects. Embrace these new possibilities and let go of the need for certainty.
While it may be a bit overwhelming, there's also the potential for promotions or new relationships. Make decisions wisely during this time. People in their personal year 4 will be productive and efficient, avoiding wasting time. There may be moments of anxiety, but push through and get the job done. It's a year for hard work and making improvements in all areas of your life.
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Symbiote PT1
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Venom
* Quiet days that have come and gone at different paces have already been familiar to you. Knowing what will happen tomorrow and what needs to be done today has never bothered you. As well as life with your new friend who has settled in your body. You had to make a schedule to somehow adjust your life for the Symbiote and not face problems during important matters, since Venom's needs are extremely nightmarish.
* The alien could get hungry at any time and demand human heads until you bang your fist on the table. The idea that you need to displace and postpone tasks because of the symbiote has been haunting you for several days. Venom hesitated with your ideas, but he agreed. Since it is this position that gives you both an advantage.
* An important point.
Venom, sensing your hunger, but receiving protests in response, forcibly makes your stomach rumble during silence, and then smiles at your attempt not to do something suspicious, although one of them has already been done.
Riot
* The Riot is quite tolerant of things like hunger or just a thirst for activity. Such a phenomenon occurs in him only at night, like in you. The amazing coincidence of your habits has led to quite easy performance of other, more important things. What did you, what did him, it was good. But Riot eats more often than you, if you understand its size and strength. Sometimes there may be inconsistencies in the needs of different types. If you have to go to work, then Riot will definitely need a pair of his favorite chocolate.
* The symbiote is surprisingly calm and collected, if you don't remember the first meeting. He is not so dependent on killing and enslaving civilians, but he loves to demonstrate strength and command. And very strongly. If an alien lives in your body, then you have to follow many of the rules that Riot has set for you. But here it is not just subordination, but a service. The alien gives you endurance and strength, and in return you maintain his ability in yourself.
* There may be breakdowns on the part of the Symbiote when you refuse to eat because of work and just try to distract yourself from it.
Carnage
* There is no such agreement here as with the others, but it can only appear as a last resort. If you want to make contact, completely immersed in your schedule, Carnage begins to deny it. He believes that it is up to you to obey and do everything possible to ensure that he survives on this planet before he destroys all life once more. What this is connected with is not yet clear, but Carnage cannot be on a constant attraction to murder every day. Sometimes it turns out that the symbiote is just silent, making you suspicious.
Isn't he looking for an organ to feed himself in your body?
Such behavior sometimes bothers you...
* Carnage tried chocolate and liked it, but also a certain one. Namely, bitter. But besides, the alien loves to eat spicy foods, although this is not surprising. The thought that the symbiote looked like chili peppers made him angry, and he threatened you again, pressing the red substance against the wall. Do not insult him and hint at it, because the Symbiote will certainly get into your brain. Carnage will not kill you anyway, he only wants to bend you under himself, controlling the body.
* The symbiote will still have to adapt to you and wait for its time for "attention". But this type isn't patient enough to soak up this routine in your life and watch you skip dinners.
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i've been hearing a lot on anti-psychiatry/reframing diagnosis and symptoms/etc (including from your blog) but i feel like im missing a baseline of information to delve in that discussion. do you know some good sources to learn the 101 of what psychiatry is, how diagnoses are "discovered"/labeled, etc...?
before hearing about the subject i assumed mental illnesses/disabilities were the result of a recognizable cause (in the same way covid is caused by contact with the virus, or some form of blindness caused by problems with the optic nerve) but it seems that is not the case.
also, not a native english speaker, don't know if im using the correct vocabulary for this.
before hearing about the subject i assumed mental illnesses/disabilities were the result of a recognizable cause (in the same way covid is caused by contact with the virus, or some form of blindness caused by problems with the optic nerve)
this is a very common misconception, and one that's very useful for the legitimation of the discipline of psychiatry. in truth, genomics and neuroscience have not identified a biological cause of any psychiatric diagnosis (p. 851). psychiatric diagnoses are not made on the basis of neuroimaging or neuroanatomical differences (none have been consistently or strongly observed as defining or causal characteristics of such diagnosed conditions, and neuroimaging datasets, such as by fMRI, are prone to be interpreted in highly varying ways by different researchers), nor with bloodwork or indeed on the basis of any other biomarkers; the 'chemical imbalance' theory of diagnoses like depression has been thoroughly debunked. instead, these diagnoses depend on clinicians' observations of patients' behaviours and affect. this in itself doesn't automatically constitute a damning critique (we rely on subjective judgments of things all the time), but it does mean that attempting to stake the psychiatric discipline's legitimacy on the identification of biological aberrations is at best misleading at and worst fraudulent, not to mention essentialist.
none of this means that psychiatry or psychiatrists are 'making up disorders from nothing', or that people's distress / symptoms are unreal. psychiatry certainly can and does pathologise behaviours that would be more productively understood as responses to traumatic experiences, capitalist political conditions, social oppression, &c; in these processes, it should be understood as a means of producing bourgeois notions of social order & then enforcing them. the fact that psychiatric diagnoses are not made on the basis of, nor do they correspond to, specific biomarkers or biological 'types', doesn't make mental / emotional / affective suffering any less 'real' than any physically observed counterparts.
as for texts that will give you some groundwork on psychiatry, i would recommend Anne Harrington's Mind Fixers: Psychiatry's Troubled Search For the Biology of Mental Illness (2019) and Andrew Scull's Desperate Remedies: Psychiatry's Turbulent Quest to Cure Mental Illness (2022) and Psychiatry and Its Discontents (2019). all three of these are heavily focussed on the usa, which is generally overrepresented in historical and sociological literature on psychiatry; however, i still think these three texts are useful starting points for getting introduced to the history of psychiatry and broad contours of critiques of the discipline. i've also posted a longer anti-psychiatry reading list that has more texts focussed on other national and international contexts.
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WIBTA for not helping my brother unlearn some hate?
I (16F) and my brother (9M, let's call him K) are both from a third world country with some less-than-friendly general views, most of which my parents agree with. I couldn't care less if my mom is vividly disgusted at Chinese/Korean products/music or if she wholeheartedly believes that having crushes on your female friends is "normal" and "not homosexuality", because she's a really kind and sweet person and I just love her, you know? She never voices these thoughts around people who are that way and even has Chinese friends herself, but once I ask her "what do you think your friends would feel if they knew you said things like that sometimes?" to which her response was basically "it's not like I'll ever say it to their face, that's rude, and I don't think they're any less humans than us, their country taking over the industrial world and music is just disgusting". Or she immediately demands the channel be changed if the tv is showing an LGBT couple (this is illegal in our country, we connect to foreign satellites which don't censor this).
Anyway. Sorry for the ramble. This leads me to two problems:
My brother is kinda short and skinny due to genetics. And when I say "kinda", I mean like, he's really, really small and tiny for his age and often gets mistaken for a preschooler or first grader. My mother worries over the fact that the boys at his school (since we're all being raised in the same toxic society, huzzah) bully him for being smaller than them. And K has a tendency to easily cry at insults, furthering this issue. I've talked to him several times on how he'll get a growth spurt and it's fine, but my mom's talks mainly consist of how he's a grown boy now and it's not nice for boys his age to cry in public like that. She also doesn't really like me getting "involved" in K's bullying issues. Please, PLEASE don't send any hate to my mom, okay guys? She's one of the best people I know.
The other issue here is that K technically IS growing up, but he's also learning some of the really uncomfortable aspects of this society by repeating things like "the referee for this soccer game probably let the other team win because he's Chinese" (to which I had to correct him and say the referee was actually Filipino, but never mind) or asking me with GENUINE curiosity if I, as a girl, play soccer at my school (he loves soccer so so much, I try to encourage this love for him).
I correct him on this stuff as much as I can, but honestly... sometimes I just don't. Sure, I think it's bad and all, but I (probably, I don't remember much) grew up being the same way considering the way our society is. And if I turned out nice enough, I'm sure he just needs to be the right age for some more technical guidance and all I can do here is randomly tell him he's wrong when he says this stuff. My mom just... she thinks it's a huge stretch to "call everything racism nowadays", which I think REALLY depends on the context! My brother says this stuff very, very rarely, but I don't think he really... gets /why/ it's bad, you know? Again, I'm mostly planning on giving him advice on occasion and letting him figure it out by himself, but I don't want him saying racist/antisemitic/sexist jokes by accident in public, less so because it might humiliate the family and more so because it might actually upset someone.
Again, WIBTA? Don't call my mom the asshole here, please. She's super extremely polite to everyone, calls for action against our dictatorship of a government, and gives medical care to her less financially stable patients for free (she's a doctor). She just has some little views here and there that are the result of her upbringing, same as ours are the result of what we experienced. I can wholeheartedly forgive her for that.
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I want to start with: people are not their disorders. Disorders are not identities. They are intended for clinicians and insurance companies and for treatment. They are clusters of symptoms. And they are faulty and honestly a poor piss always of describing people. All psychiatric disorders contain overlap. Personality disorders especially contain overlapping symptoms. Rarely does a person exactly fit one PD. Dissociation can be a symptom of PDs. Dissociating is not necessarily indicative of a dissociative disorder. Also, there is nothing wrong with being diagnosed with a PD. It doesn’t mean that person is a bad person. A PD is diagnosed when a person exhibits a pattern of certain behaviors over a long period of time, usually start in adolescence. PDs are often difficult to treat because those diagnosed often do not see any problem with their behavior, and therefore often do not actively try to change. PDs are incredibly sad, for both the person who likely experiences much unhappiness but can’t see why and for those around them.
I imagine that patient’s doctors knew her very well before coming to their diagnosis. It is very possible they observed manipulative behavior in her regularly. She may have believed she had DID as it would have been a convenient excuse to continue her manipulative behaviors. Often, people do not want to take responsibility for their harmful behavior. Could you imagine if everyone could just blame bad behavior on a dissociative disorder? It sounds like she just pointed to the dissociative disorder as an excuse, rather than feeling actual remorse or regret for her actions. Therein lies the difference. Again, does this make her a bad person? No. She clearly had a hard life that shaped her into who she was. However, it is important to diagnose correctly. Treatment changes depending on the diagnosis. Honestly, this is why I personally believe diagnoses should be withheld. Rather than viewing themselves as a whole person, patients may often overly identify with the diagnosis which can also hinder recovery (i.e. getting the patient to a place where they no longer feel the need to use maladaptive coping strategies; more ideally, getting them to a place where they can thrive rather than only survive).
Regardless, that is one anecdote. My point remains that it does happen that one is introduced with the concept of alters and then they suddenly have alters, not because they have DID, but again, because they have high suggestibility, prone to fantasy, etc. And that is ok! That doesn’t make them liars or bad people. It just doesn’t necessarily mean they have DID and therefore treatment used for DID may not be effective for them. More likely they’re young, still figuring out their identity, confused, etc. Clinicians need to be careful when a new client comes in claiming alters as having the wrong diagnosis can, again, hinder recovery, and with DID being all over social media nowadays, this is becoming more common.
I imagine that patient’s doctors knew her very well before coming to their diagnosis.
She had initially been diagnosed with DID.
Then she was sent to the clinic that conducted this study who suspected she didn't have real DID as soon as she was admitted to their department.
Honestly, this is why I personally believe diagnoses should be withheld.
You mean you shouldn't tell the patients what they're diagnosed with?
That's a terrible idea! Just imagine all the patients put on who knows how many different types of medications without being told what the meds are even treating! Unless you just mean for DID specifically, but then why single that out?
However, it is important to diagnose correctly.
I agree. It is very important to diagnose correctly. But the reasoning for her not having DID is weak. By all counts, it sounds like she fit the criteria. If not for DID then at least for OSDD.
Let me put this a different way.
These doctors had a problem. There were lawsuits being filed against psychiatrists for alleged misdiagnoses. To protect themselves and other doctors from such suits, they needed a defense.
They created a theory of "imitated DID" as a solution to this problem. A super hard-to-detect condition where people just enacted the symptoms of DID, that doctors couldn't possibly be held liable for because of how hard it is to detect.
To back up this theory, well, they needed case studies to use as examples. Which meant identifying people to have their made-up condition.
Regardless, that is one anecdote.
It's THE FIRST anecdote. This, and the other case studies presented, were what was used as justification to create Imitated DID as a concept!
Before this paper, there was malingering which was intentionally lying to gain some type of benefit. But there was no real concept of people gaining or imitating DID-like symptoms unconsciously.
In the end, this alleged condition of "imitated DID" has no scientific basis. The theory is not driven by science, but money. It was made up to protect doctors from legal liability.
My point remains that it does happen that one is introduced with the concept of alters and then they suddenly have alters, not because they have DID, but again, because they have high suggestibility, prone to fantasy, etc.
And my point is that evidence for this claim is lacking.
Many people don't just form alters after learning that DID exists. But sure, when people learn about plurality, if they are already plural, there is a tendency for them to realize that they already had headmates afterwards. But those headmates didn't just come into existence. It's just that the system didn't have words to describe their experiences before.
I will give you that, because of rampant system medicalism, many of these may be non-disordered systems will wrongfully self-diagnose as disordered systems. This is a reason we need more education on systems of all kinds.
But that's still not imitated DID. It's not created to copy DID experiences. They're just using the closest thing they know about to define the experience of being multiple that they already have.
Clinicians need to be careful when a new client comes in claiming alters as having the wrong diagnosis can, again, hinder recovery, and with DID being all over social media nowadays, this is becoming more common.
And yet, false diagnosis of DID is a non-issue. In a later study, Suzette Boon, who invented the concept of imitated DID, discussed how only 6 out of the 85 patients in that study were misdiagnosed with DID. In the same paper, she mentions how other studies have shown 26-40% of DID patients will be diagnosed with schizophrenia long before they get a correct diagnosis of DID. And that's just schizophrenia alone, never mind other psychotic disorders, BPD and similar disorders that are often confused with DID.
There is no epidemic of people getting falsely diagnosed with DID.
But there is an epidemic of people with DID and other dissociative disorders being wrongfully diagnosed with other conditions.
Why then, aren't we calling for clinicians to show the same care when diagnosing schizophrenia that we are with them diagnosing DID?
Oh wait, I just thought of 16 billion reasons.
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How would NCT127 react if they made their significant other cry
How Would NCT127 React If They Made Their S/O Cry
Taeil
It will really depend on where exactly he made you cry
if you start crying in public he will feel uneasy
and his first move would be to take you away so people don't stare
if you guys are in private he behaves differently
he will mostly try to understand why you are crying
and why was it his fault
Taeil would want to talk about it
He would listen to you and try to understand your feelings
He would apologize if he hurt you
and he would try to compensate by snuggling with you
hug you
or give you a sorry kiss
Johnny
Johnny is a paradox
because when he hurts you and your response is by crying he will conflict with his own feelings
firstly of course he feels bad
he will want to listen to your point
of why you crying, why you reacting like that
he might even understand you
but on another side, he is way too careless
and his emotional reticence will make him think that you are overacting (again)
and that can be conflicting if he says out loud that he thinks you are being dramatic about the whole thing
He will try to be fair
but mostly he doesn't talk much to solve the thing
he will let you do whatever you want because he doesn't want to be dragged on "your drama"
Probably uses his romantic side to make you forgive him
he might take things to a physical level as well
Taeyong
Taeyong can be sharp sometimes
and if he hurt you he might not understand it at first glance
seeing you cry will make him understand
However careful, because his placements also indicate that when he hurts someone he might take the victim role
in a way "oh I hurt you, I am the bad guy, leave me" type
So depending on you this would result in a fight
or in something quiet where both of you take some time away from each other to reflect
but he ain't stupid either
and he wouldn't like to stay in such a mood
he would be the type to annoy you, to be playful until you forgive him about what he did
Yuta
Oh this boy will hate himself for making you cry
of course, if you are crying there might have been something he has done, maybe due to a fight, an argument, or something else
doesn't matter to him, even if his point of view seems logical and important he will still feel bad for making you cry
Yuta will handle this in a diplomatic way
you guys would talk through calmly
each one exposing feelings and ideas to find a middle ground
He will try his best to make you forget about this
he is the type to wipe your tears away
to hug you
to make jokes
because making you laugh somehow helps him feel less shitty about the whole thing
Doyoung
He would be surprised if you start crying because of something he said or has done
contrary to the other boys, Doyoung might use emotional and logical manipulation to get himself out of the problem
basically reviewing what went wrong and try to argue things in a way that might touch you
not to ridicule your feelings
but to put another perspective on what you are feeling so he seems less guilty
He is a perfect storyteller
and the way he always put something positive and bright into his arguments makes him see more plausible
so there's a chance that by the end of the convo, you don't even understand or remember why you started crying at the first place
He would try to use also contact and love to ease your feelings
Jaehyun
Despite being an ass in love he isn't an ass in the totality of it
meaning that if he makes you cry he will feel compassionate
he will stop whatever he did or said that hurt you
and he would give you time to calm down
Jaehyun hates conflicts and no matter if he truly loves you or not, he will be patient and calm about it
He will stay quiet and allow you to express your feelings
he might just look at you, nod his head and understand
although he might not say sorry
he will show empathy
He will try to find a common ground so you guys don't get into that situation again
he will also allow you to make your own choices concerning the relationship
Jungwoo
He would become very quiet at first when he sees you cry
the type to feel very guilty about things
but at the same time, he would try to over-analyze why what he did or said made you cry
of course, he would want to know from your version
but he still makes his own idea of why you reacted the way you did
He would make the quick decisions
to talk It through right now
so you guys won't stay stuck in this mood
He won't hold grudge against himself
but he will be very understanding
Jungwoo would apologize for his wrongdoings
and after that he will do whatever you want to do
cuddle? sure! Do you need time ? no problem will be of service
Mark
He would be on the defensive
seeing you cry will mix his ego up and that's not something he appreciated
so if you gus are arguing and you start crying he gets defensive
and impatient with your cries
asking you to stop doing so
that you are being dramatic
and that it's not his fault if you feel things that way, because that's not what he meant
Mark can be very persuasive as well
and the same way you use your feelings to communicate he will do the same
"oh you crying because of this ? well it's because you did this or that" type
it would be honestly better for you both to take time away from each other o cool down and talk later
because in the moment he will refuse your guidance
he won't listen to your point
because only his own matters
Haechan
He can be a total prick
and his capricious side would come out as well
seeing you cry won't make him emotional nor guilty
because what matter for this man is to win whatever argument you both are
even if he knows that he is wrong
his placements clearly show that he feeds of arguments
and crying won't stop him
so yeah things can get heated pretty quickly
and just like Mark I think it would be better for you guys to take some time out
to cool down
and mostly not talk to him until he changes his point of view, which can take some time
Haechan is way too complicated to deal with honestly
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someone asked me awhile ago about forgiving an sp so i have a new perspective. when it comes to forgiving an sp, i want you guys to think about something *disclaimer: im not blaming you. no one is making you manifest them back. if you have problems they're yours alone and you are responsible for them.* if you believe in the multiple versions thing (bc instantly things can change based on your awareness) then let's for a second separate the two. we have
💔 sp who didn't commit, didn't want to show affection, was cheating, toxic, etc.
🤍 sp who is dying to commit, is constantly showing you affection, would never dream of cheating or even hurting you
both of these people exist right now in the moment depending on whichever you're aware of. STOP dealing with 💔since you left that reality there's no need for that dusty mf to exist. and probably 🤍 hates them because of the growth and pain they had to endure to get there. imagine your entire life being about the worst thing you've ever done. (luckily i don't have to) but whenever i think about how was trying to manifest him back but would keep arguing with him in my head i literally imagined me and 🤍 talking and then all of a sudden i get upset at 💔 who no longer exist and is a shadow of 🤍 past. i can consciously accept this fact but 🤍 cannot. every time i think about 💔 and how i was treated i was just reminding 🤍 of his past (therefore doesn't exist) mistakes. since i was trying to manifest 🤍 while continuously interacting with 💔, hot and cold behavior instead came up. stay with 🤍
he didn't want to reach out cuz he was scared i hated him and tbh since thought transmission exists that's exactly what i was showing him by arguing with the previous version. once i stopped this and decided i wanted to put the past behind us i realized it was ego in the first place so it was REALLY easy.
i h a t e the old him with a passion and whenever i thought about it i get upset but now i just assume he gets pissed at him too cuz of his growth. make the old story work for you while destroying it since getting rid of the old story makes you want to get rid of beliefs by default. be kind and patient to yourself and remember that at the end of the day no one is making you or forcing you.
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How to: Accessibility [EN]
Part 01 - Visual design
It’s been a while since my last how to and felt like putting something together! First of all, HAPPY PRIDE MONTH! To everyone out there! Being in the queer community, i know the struggles we go through everyday and am wishing a very proud month to all of us <3
Moving on to the actual topic here: accessibility. It’s been shown here and there when discussing coding and skinning but WHAT DOES IT ACTUALLY MEAN!
Let’s go back a bit. For years people have been trying to achieve the impossible: an universal design. A design that is universal and usable for ALL people a one-size-fits-all design that will be usable and perfect for everyone. Now, there’s only one ‘little’ problem with this: people are different. I’ve always been overweight and whenever I’ve seen clothes that say ‘one size fit all’, I look at it very suspiciously. Bottom line is: every person is different, pain points and needs will also be different.
So what do we do? One different design for every person who is using our product?
Well, let’s make it equitable, let’s provide flexibility to cater for a broader audience, and let this audience choose what’s best for them. But! That’s doesn't take the responsibility from us, the designers (and coders) to make sure that we are making what we can to enable this flexibility.
------------- I've started a list which I then realised would be way bigger than expected, so decided to make each item into its own post. We'll start with VISUAL DESIGN!
Part 01 - Visual design
Colour
I’ve mentioned before about the importance of contrast and contrast ratio briefly. If you want to go into more details, you may have a look at W3 Guidelines. In short:
Don't rely on colour alone to convey meaning, information and actions;
Make sure there's enough contrast between foreground and background
Provide an option for light/dark mode
Light/Dark Modes
There’s a myth that dark mode is good for accessibility, because it improves text readability. (Personally, I’m a big fan of dark mode, as white/bright screens may trigger migraines). However, as everything in ux, the answer to ‘is it black or white’ is that it depends. As mentioned before, a good rule of thumb is not to generalise and provide flexibility.
When using light and dark mode, make sure the colour contrast ratio passes on both modes. Here’s a few tips for designing for dark mode (according to atmos article attached at the end of this):
Use tints (less saturated colours). Saturated colours can cause eye strain and will be hard to pass accessibility standards.
Image from Atmos website
Avoid pure black. Please. Pure black and pure white when used together might be the default instinct, but the contrast when used together is so strong it becomes hard to look at. Choose dark greys and off-whites/light grey when possible.
Be patient with your colour palette, inverting colours won’t make it necessarily good. Take your time to build a palette that will be suitable for both.
Target Sizes
First, what is this? This refers to the dimensions of interactive elements such as links, buttons, icons or touch targets. Basically, anything you can interact/click.
WCAG 2.2 established a minimum for pointer inputs to be 24x24. This is the space that should be provided for a clickable area.
Image from W3 website
There's a number of exceptions and guidelines which I won't get into too much detail. It's important to think about the area which people are clicking into these elements. Also remember that this may be quite useful for users that are using the forum in their mobiles - so this is quite important (don't you hate when you can't click somewhere because you haven't clicked the EXACT area needed?)
In short:
Make sure target sizes are at least 24px
Make sure buttons look like buttons, anything that is clickable and interactive LOOKS like they are interactive
Make sure links are underlined (again, as an extra visual sign that they are clickable)
THAT'S IT!!
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HoW was Redneck Rehab:
If you want to equate the house of wind to rehab then you have to recognize the fact that Cassian was taking advantage of N/esta. If the house of wind in rehab then Cassian is a rehabilitation couselor who had sex with a patient. A rehabilitation counselor being intimate with a patient is sexual misconduct. So no.. saying that the house of wind was rehab does not justify what they did to N/esta
This was a post sent to me a little ago and I have some things to say.
First of all, that is not what a rehabilitation counselor is - the term op is looking for is an addiction/substance abuse couselor.
According to the cleveland clinic and ttuhsc, the role of an addiction counselor is to provide and coordinate services for people with a range of substance use and other behavioral addictions and health problems.
According to hazelden betty ford graduate school, the responsibilities for addiction counselors are as follows:
conduct group and individual therapy - this also means that counselors not only work with the patients but with parole officers, families, law enforcement, courts, etc.
develop individual treatment plans - treatment plans would address each substance use disorder and would be adjusted depending on patient's progress; this is usually done in the conjunction with other medical professionals
perform assessments - this entails gathering information about your patients and engaging with them to determine the severity of the addiction, readiness for change, existence of co-occurring mental health disorders, problem areas that may affect treatment, and other needs and opportunities
work with patients to avoid relapse - counselors need to determine risks for relapse and develop prevention plans. this includes helping patients identify their triggers and often working with families to teach them effective ways to support their loved one cope with addiction
refer patients to other support sources - counselors act as a bridge between the patient and outside resources that will also be vital in recovery; for example, one might refer a patient to an outside drug or alcohol support group, or to clinical care
keep records - documentation is essential to helping addiction counselors and medical professionals, as well as patients and families, to track the progress and treatment; then evaluate, and refine, treatment plans on an ongoing basis
If you've gotten this far then I'm guessing you've realized that Cassian is the furthest thing from an addiction counselor.
He washer trainer, yes, but he did not perform daily assessments on her addiction, did not develop individual treatment plans (other than workouts), did not work with her to avoid relapse, did not refer her to other sources of support (in fact, he was her support source for maintaining physical health), did not keep records, and did not conduct any individual/group therapy sessions.
To say Cassian out of everyone had played a part in Nesta's mental healing is laughable - I love him, but he did not do shit for her when it came to her mental health. And she didn't do shit for him for his clearly deep-seeded resentment towards himself.
The HoW-rehab comparison is not 1:1 - it never was. It literally can't because there were no medical professionals. It was what i call 'The Bootleg, Redneck Version' and 'We have rehab at home'
Without it, Nesta never would've met Emerie or Gwyn, she never would've fought in the Blood Rite, she never would've become a Valkyrie, and she likely would be dead.
And most of the people I read that say the House of Wind was this horrible horrible thing are the same people I see say Rhys can't be mad at Nesta because Feyre forgave her; so I use your own logic against you:
You can't be mad at Feyre, Rhys, etc. because Nesta already forgave them for this a long time ago.
#pro nesta archeron#pro nesta#pro nessian#cassian acotar#cassian#acotar#nesta archeron#I love you cassian#and i will make a post about him#but youre giving him too much credit#acting like hes her counselor lmao
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hii! what are the effects of prolonged tachycardia with fluctuating bpm ranging from 140-160 for around 30 minutes to a conscious patient? will it cause any brain damage?
The short answer is basically nothing and no.
Tachycardia is any heart rate above 100 in an adult. There are several different kinds of tachycardia, including sinus tachycardia, paroxysmal supraventricular tachycardia, atrial fibrillation with RVR, and ventricular tachycardia. Whether the tachycardia is bad for a person has to do with what kind of tachycardia it is, what the heart rate is, and how long the person is in that rhythm.
The first one we'll talk about is sinus tachycardia. Sinus tachycardia is a normal physiological response to the body's demand for more oxygen and nutrients. Sinus tach happens when someone has a fever, is dehydrated, has blood loss, is in shock, or is having a strong emotional response.
It's one of those things that doesn't need treated in and of itself, though figuring out and treating the cause is important. Once the cause is treated, the heart rate usually drops back down to normal.
There are also times when you intentionally bring the heart rate up above 100- for example, exercise. This is also considered sinus tachycardia. When you exercise, you want your heart rate to be in a target zone, which depending on age can be anywhere from 75-170bpm (the younger you are, the higher the target heart rate).
In the case of exercise, a heart rate of 140-160bpm for a half hour would be completely reasonable. In the case of dehydration or shock, you'd really need to fix the problem, but the heart rate itself isn't going to hurt anyone under about 60 who is otherwise healthy.
Paroxysmal Supraventricular Tachycardia (PSVT) is a condition in which the heart rate randomly increases into the high 100s-low 200s. This heart rate is so fast that the heart doesn't have time to fill with blood in between beats. Because of this, not as much blood is getting out of the heart to the brain and body, which means the person may feel faint, short of breath, or dizzy or even pass out.
People in PSVT may spontaneously convert back into a normal rhythm, or they may need a drug called adenosine given to change them back to a normal rhythm. Adenosine works kind of like a defibrillator- it briefly stops the heart in order to let it restart normally. If this happens frequently, someone may need an ablation- a procedure in which parts of the heart muscle that are causing the rapid heart rate are burned to permanently prevent future attacks.
In order to understand atrial fibrillation with RVR, you have to understand how the heart initiates beats normally. In the heart there are cells in a place called the SA pacemaker node, which send out small electrical signals that work to coordinate a beat across all the cells in the heart.
In atrial fibrillation, lots of cells outside this node try to initiate beats, which causes the top half of the heart to quiver. If a lot of these "beats" get through to the bottom of the heart, that's called Rapid Ventricular Response, or RVR. Afib RVR causes a rapid, irregular heart rate.
Afib RVR can cause the same problem as PSVT- namely that it causes the heart to beat so fast it can't refill with blood in between beats. Usually the first few times this happens the person converts out to a normal rhythm within about a week (or can be converted out with defibrillation or medications). Later this state can become permanent and has to be managed with medications that reduce the heart rate and blood thinners to prevent strokes and heart attacks, which happen because blood gets stuck and clots in the quivering upper part of the heart.
The last one, ventricular tachycardia, is the most dangerous because if not treated it can either become so fast virtually no blood is coming out of the heart (cardiac arrest) or become another dangerous rhythm called ventricular fibrillation (also cardiac arrest, but even worse).
This one is a life-threatening emergency and needs to be treated immediately with CPR (if the person is unconscious) defibrillation and medications.
This was a lot to answer your question, but all this to say that if your person is running 140s-160s because they're working out for a half hour, they're totally fine. If they're 140s-160s because of PSVT they're not fine but they're probably going to convert out of it with a medication or just time. If they're 140s-160s in RVR they're probably uncomfortable and need medical attention but they'll probably be alright. If they're in ventricular tachycardia, they need emergency care.
Of these, the only one that could really cause brain damage is the ventricular tachycardia, but it would have to be a lot faster than 140-160.
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